Armenian women paging sex magazines

A few weeks ago, I boldly asked an Armenian man about a magazine published in London that deals specifically with the topic of sex.

I say "boldly" because he was very much surprised by my comfortable, "uninhibited" approach regarding a subject that has been and still is considered an age-old taboo.

It is true then! Armenian women are losing their inhibitions. A woman asks about a sex magazine! An Armenian woman, who - unlike many foreign women - is forever seen as that pure creature in her father's house until she moves to her husband's place, dares to comfortably admit that she pages sex magazines.

Sex is fun for women too!

It is only but human to acknowledge the fact that all women, Armenian or otherwise, married or single, do want to have fun. Let's face it: Sex is fun! Both men and women have regular daily encounters with sex on the radio, TV, the Internet, in conversations and chat rooms, jokes and movements, even in their deepest thoughts. We are exposed to sex! Tempted or not, sooner or later, all of us will get on the sex train. Does a simple truth such as this necessarily mean that women who are often exposed to sex have lost their inhibitions? If your answer is yes, grow up! Better yet, open your eyes and look around! In fact, such exposure builds up a woman's confidence, making her a better friend, an exciting wife and a well-informed mother.

To have or not to have inhibitions

Is hanging my pure nakedness enough a sentence or punishment for losing my inhibitions? Then again, who said that I have lost my inhibitions? To lose something means to have had it once, but not now. Yet I think that inhibition in me is not lost, but merely apparent whenever necessary.

I am still very much inhibited by the notion of sex and sexual freedom, but only on my terms. When it comes to sex, I have often been described to match the primitive approach of my great grand Armenian forefathers and mothers.

Believe it or not!

Let us share some facts for a brief minute: I was looking for a magazine that speaks of the taboo topic of sex - and lots of it. First thing that comes to one's mind of course is why I was out looking for it. What would you like me to say in response to such astonishment?

Regardless of what my exact reasons are, I would not expect you to believe me, so don't expect me to tell you the simple truth about it. I am not a compulsive liar, but I am a private person and will always remain so. To be honest, I am quite more inhibited by the notion of expressing my own needs, thoughts, desires and plans rather than expressing any inhibition about the topic of sex.

Womanly secrets on taboo sex few men know

Here is a feminine secret of Armenian women which a lot of macho males - no offense intended - do not understand or would not want to understand. When it comes to sex, take my word for it, the notion of taboo arises as a defense mechanism and not actually as the forbidden taboo. It is merely used when the woman is either trying to get that person into proposing or is in fact seriously not interested in the man.

A ring for sex!

In case of the former, a woman may be willing with a ring in her hand. However, the minute the Armenian man hears about marriage, the majority will jump into that first ship and sail right into the middle of the ocean and prefer to be stranded like Tom Hanks. In this case, the Armenian woman is a winner because she won't be wasting her time with a commitment-phobic man and then worrying about notoriously common gossip after all. Next!

There is, however, a vital remark worth mentioning here. The statement above about Armenian men refers to those who are generally in their prime youth. Once they hit their early forties or late thirties, the need to reproduce, yes, reproduce - I wish this were not a joke, but shamefully it is true - would push them to accept the idea of being abused in the name of "taboo sex." In fact, some men even embrace the idea, and those are the most unfortunate, idiotic and poor men who learned very little, if any, about women during the course of their prime time!

The confusing No

As for the latter, when a woman is sexually unmoved or physically indifferent, she wants - indirectly - to sing him the bug-a-boo song. The Armenian woman is introduced to inhibition towards the man since her early age, to subdue to him, always obey and please rather than send him away. So in the second millennium, what does the modern woman who wants to send him away and still keep face do? Use the well-reputed notion of sex as a taboo, of course.

The drawback on this one is that the Armenian man still thinks that when she says "no," she means, "yes!" Ever heard the expression, "Why?" He will not settle for such rejection and circle around the woman, stalking her and making the situation even worse, building yet another - and much stronger - refusal.

The dream world of courtship

Such sexual inhibitions, on the other hand, have no firm ground given the right formula between a man and a woman. There is no single woman or girl who would not follow that click of energetic spark when it strikes her. That is, of course, if a man is man enough to know how to make her feel that energy - and I am not talking about sex or orgasm here. I am talking about the woman's dreaming of sex with her man, wanting it first in her mind before even kissing him - or being "kindly" forced to kiss him.

Have you ever thought what that means to a woman, especially when she has never or seldom felt it? To dream of a man sexually without having sex with him, to actually romance the mind before romancing a woman's senses. Ask me how many men have done that? Well, I got lucky! Ask women around you how many men have tried to romance them without actually touching them! Ask yourself, the man, have you ever done that?

Climbing the seventh heaven

Seems complicated! Whether you like it or not, Armenian women, more than any other women, are delicate and these feelings are like the lottery: You never know when you win it or if you will ever win it at all.

Some might argue that these women are disturbed people. It is, in fact, worth every single minute of an effort a man embarks on such a task. Once the Armenian woman feels that she is in heaven, her man will be in seventh heaven… trust me.

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